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A problem shared is a problem halved. Unless you share it with someone who is very emotionally involved with you. In which case its a problem quadrupled.

 

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Familiarity does not so much breed contempt as it permits contempt

 
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Posted by on July 4, 2011 in Food for thought

 

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If meaning depends on thought, does that mean that when I stop thinking life becomes meaningless?

 
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Posted by on June 19, 2011 in Food for thought, Meaning

 

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He does not accept himself
In order to make himself
Acceptable to himself

 
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Posted by on June 6, 2011 in Food for thought, Poem

 

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The experience of name-dropping

You have a famous friend called Serena*. When you mention that “Serena is a friend of mine” in conversation, does it FEEL different when you are ‘name-dropping’ that she is your friend vs. when you merely describing that she is your friend? How does ‘name-dropping’ FEEL different from just ‘describing’?

* ‘Serena’ could also be a e.g. famous university/institution you worked at, or a noteworthy accomplishment etc.

 

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Does ‘sorry’ mean ‘I regret causing you pain or suffering’ or does it mean ‘Please don’t disapprove of me, reject me, think I am bad, tell other people I am bad etc.’?

 

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Its mostly people close to you – family, lovers (and friends to a certain extent) – that push your buttons. What would it be like to have no buttons to push? Would you still be you?

 

He who believes what he can’t see, often can’t see what he doesn’t believe.

 

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Belief in a separate self is the hardest religion to leave. Its much easier just to become an atheist.

 

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Three ways we attempt to deal with objects of desire/addiction (two more traditional, one more modern):

1) Banish or ‘cover up’ the object of desire e.g. ban alcohol, force woman (and men) to hide most of their bodies from public view,

2) Remove or distance oneself from the object e.g. become a monk in a monastery, keep no alcohol or junk food in the house,

3) Permit oneself to be in the presence of the object of desire, and rely on self-discipline or mindfulness to engage with this object in a ‘responsible’ healthy way.

This last way seems to involve the most ‘freedom’ and yet so many of us are hooked on at least *something* e.g. overeating, smoking, alcohol or other drugs …

 

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