If you can’t be happy, create some drama e.g. start a fight
Judgement is janus-faced.
Judgement ‘looks both ways’, in that its surprising how often that when you make a negative judgement about someone else, that same judgement also applies to you, at that exact same moment.
With the relaxing of just one rarely-doubted but firmly-held assumption – that we have a separate ‘self’ – the seemingly incoherent and mundane utterances of certain spiritual teachers can become meaningful, significant and perhaps even scientifically tractable.
Insight Junkie 